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Dismantling the Myth: “You Can Look, But You Just Can’t Touch”
Years ago I worked with a guy who was very open about…
Years ago I worked with a guy who was very open about the fact that he looked at pornography. He was married and had a few kids, but he brought porn magazines to work and…
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Discovering Practices for a Porn-Free Life: Biz Gainey’s Story
Biz Gainey has been married to Melissa for twenty years, with three…
Biz Gainey has been married to Melissa for twenty years, with three children. He serves as a pastor of a local congregation committed to soul keeping and spiritual formation for the sake of others. He…
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For Men Addicted to Porn: 8 Ways to Rebuild Trust with Your Wife
This post has been updated as of August, 2020. When a woman discovers…
This post has been updated as of August, 2020. When a woman discovers her husband has been watching porn behind her back, it can feel absolutely devastating. It is a traumatic discovery in the truest sense…
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Porn Addiction Recovery: 5 Ways to Avoid Burnout
Last week I was having an informal conversation with one of my…
Last week I was having an informal conversation with one of my accountability partners. Our chat flowed through normal catch-up material and soon the quintessential question arose: How are you doing with pornography? Having anticipated…
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Get Real with God about Sex: How the Gospel Changes Us
Episode 157 [powerpress] Last week we began our conversation with John Freeman,…
Episode 157 [powerpress] Last week we began our conversation with John Freeman, president of Harvest USA and author of Hide or Seek: When Men Get Real with God About Sex. This week he talks with…
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Changing Your Media Diet to Change Your Attitude
I almost rage-quit a video game recently. Not because it was too…
I almost rage-quit a video game recently. Not because it was too hard, or crashed too horribly (the usual reasons gamers quit particular games)—no, it was because of the cutscenes. This particular game was the…
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The Grace of God and the Porn Addict
I remember when I was struggling with sexual sin in my own…
I remember when I was struggling with sexual sin in my own life and how it was all I could think about. I lived in a world where guilt and shame reigned supreme. Instead of…
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How Covenant Eyes Helps Protect Your Kids on Mobile
“Excuse me. The pastor mentioned pornography in today’s message. Do you have…
“Excuse me. The pastor mentioned pornography in today’s message. Do you have any resources on that?” From my position behind the info booth at my church, I hid a little bit of a laugh from…
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Where to Find an Accountability Partner
Are you ready to find an accountability partner but don’t know where…
Are you ready to find an accountability partner but don’t know where to look? Accountability partners are friends at the deepest level. They are people with whom you will share your slips, struggles, challenges, and…
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Is Porn Your Idol? Interview with John Freeman
Episode 156 [powerpress] Men who struggle with porn aren’t just wrestling with…
Episode 156 [powerpress] Men who struggle with porn aren’t just wrestling with sexual sin. Often they are “God haters,” they are “idol makers,” and they are “game players.” What do these labels mean? Today, we’re…