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Sexual Betrayal Is Not Your Fault (But What’s Your Part?)
When my wife of eighteen years closed the door on our marriage…
When my wife of eighteen years closed the door on our marriage and drove away to meet her lover, I crumpled to the floor and sobbed uncontrollably. The news of her nine-month affair and her…
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Confessing Lust to Your Wife: How Detailed Should You Be?
I’ve always appreciated the helpful insights provided by the counselors at CCEF…
I’ve always appreciated the helpful insights provided by the counselors at CCEF (Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation). For over 40 years this group has set the standard for a biblical counseling model. This video is…
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More Wives Snoop on Internet History than Husbands, Study Shows
When 920 middle-aged couples in the UK were questioned: 10% of wives…
When 920 middle-aged couples in the UK were questioned: 10% of wives said they secretly checked their husbands’ Internet browsing history (vs. 7% of husbands). 14% of wives said they read their husbands’ e-mails (vs.…
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My Drug & His Poison: Tiffany’s Story
“Do not bite at the bait of pleasure till you know there…
“Do not bite at the bait of pleasure till you know there is no hook beneath it.” ~ Thomas Jefferson Do you remember the first time you realized that you loved your husband or boyfriend?…
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Three Biblical Principles to Help Wives of Porn Addicts
Covenant Eyes Radio – Episode 76 [display_podcast] Today I’ll be speaking with…
Covenant Eyes Radio – Episode 76 [display_podcast] Today I’ll be speaking with Rose Colón, Director of Women’s Counseling at Pure Life Ministries. Rose and her husband Jeff first came to Pure Life in 1994 when…
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Exposed – A Novel for Women Devastated by Porn
My friend Ashley Weis is publishing her first novel, Exposed, in September.…
My friend Ashley Weis is publishing her first novel, Exposed, in September. It is the story of a marriage counselor who discovers her husband’s pornography addiction, and a teen who falls into the self-destructive porn…
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Am I Beautiful Enough for Him?
“You’re not beautiful enough.” That’s what my husband’s struggle with porn told…
“You’re not beautiful enough.” That’s what my husband’s struggle with porn told me. His issues with lust reinforced so many lies I heard over so many years of never measuring up to someone. Because of…
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Why Internet filters aren’t enough
Our friend Ashley Weis asked me to write something for her blog…
Our friend Ashley Weis asked me to write something for her blog about the limits of Internet filtering. She regularly interacts with women who are heartbroken over their husbands’ use of pornography. Her story and…
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The Effects of Pornography on Wives and Marriages
Joe and Patty came to my office in crisis. Patty had recently…
Joe and Patty came to my office in crisis. Patty had recently discovered Joe viewing Internet pornography late at night. A search of the computer’s history revealed chronic use of porn. Joe admitted he had…
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Redeeming the Pain of Sexual Betrayal – Interview with Melissa Haas (Part 2)
Covenant Eyes Radio – Episode 70 [display_podcast] Today we are playing the…
Covenant Eyes Radio – Episode 70 [display_podcast] Today we are playing the second part of our conversation with Melissa Haas. While Melissa and her husband Troy served on the mission field in Africa, Troy committed…