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How I Quit Porn: The wake-up call that turned my world upsidedown
What happens when your husband’s porn addiction, adultery, and lies reach a…
What happens when your husband’s porn addiction, adultery, and lies reach a point where you can’t take it any longer? This was the place Nicole was in 2008. Two weeks after her eighth wedding anniversary…
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Break Porn Addiction: 5 Lessons I Learned Along the Way
by James Tarring Cordrey Years ago my wife surprised me with a…
by James Tarring Cordrey Years ago my wife surprised me with a direct question about my use of pornography. What followed that question is known in our marriage as “The Confession.” The brutal truth of…
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Quit Porn Addiction: 3 Reasons Why Godly Sex is Better than Immorality
Sometimes we spend so much time emphasizing the evils of sexual immorality…
Sometimes we spend so much time emphasizing the evils of sexual immorality that we forget to build a positive vision for sex, one that is so satisfying that it makes other alternatives seem less desirable.…
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All Things Working Together for Good: Rebuilding Trust After an Affair
I love the story of Chris and Cindy Beall. These two are…
I love the story of Chris and Cindy Beall. These two are trophies of God’s grace in a way that proves God is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or…
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7 Questions Wives of Porn Addicts Often Ask (Part 3 of 3)
Ella Hutchinson specializes in counseling wives of sex addicts. In this 3-part…
Ella Hutchinson specializes in counseling wives of sex addicts. In this 3-part blog series, she looks at common questions these wives ask. (Go back to read Part 1 or Part 2 of the series.) #7:…
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7 Questions Wives of Porn Addicts Often Ask (Part 2 of 3)
Ella Hutchinson specializes in counseling wives of sex addicts. In this 3-part…
Ella Hutchinson specializes in counseling wives of sex addicts. In this 3-part blog series, she looks at common questions these wives ask. (Read Part 1 of the series.) #3: Why am I not enough if…
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7 Questions Wives of Porn Addicts Often Ask
Sexual addiction, an umbrella term which includes pornography addiction, is likely the…
Sexual addiction, an umbrella term which includes pornography addiction, is likely the most harmful addiction when it comes to marriages. The reasons for this are numerous and include the shame associated with this addiction for…
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The Day She Left Him: One woman shares how pornography nearly destroyed her marriage
Pornography works like a cancer: it infects everything it touches. This is…
Pornography works like a cancer: it infects everything it touches. This is especially true in marriage. When a husband (or wife) continually turns to pornography, it can destroy the intimacy and trust between them and…
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Healing Hearts Broken by Pornography: A Conversation Between a Wife and Dr. God
When we get sick we often desire immediate relief of the symptoms…
When we get sick we often desire immediate relief of the symptoms (backache, headache, fever, etc.) and we are less concerned with the illness itself in the heat of the moment. We just want the…
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Insecure husband & critical wife: a case study
Paul and Judie have been married for 21 years. They have three…
Paul and Judie have been married for 21 years. They have three teenaged children: boy, boy, and girl. They attend a Reformed church in town. Both Paul and Judie are active members in their church.…