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Free Downloads: Encouraging Cards to Send to Covenant Eyes Users
Looking for a creative way to encourage the person you hold accountable?…
Looking for a creative way to encourage the person you hold accountable? Download these new encouraging eCards and e-mail them to your friend after you receive an Accountability Report. Remember: If you hit “Reply” on…
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Complete How-To Guide for Christian Accountability Partners
“I don’t need an accountability partner. I’m accountable to God.” Unfortunately, this…
“I don’t need an accountability partner. I’m accountable to God.” Unfortunately, this attitude is commonplace in the church today. Granted, it is often driven by good motives. Some men and women believe accountability is about…
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A Pastor Reflects on Porn and Church Leadership
A very challenging situation came to my attention recently. It involves a…
A very challenging situation came to my attention recently. It involves a woman who’s married to a man with a long-term addiction to pornography. She has talked with their pastor (the husband’s brother) but not…
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5 Free Resources Every Accountability Partner Should Have
“Christ, who said to the disciples, ‘You have not chosen me, but…
“Christ, who said to the disciples, ‘You have not chosen me, but I have chosen you,’ can truly say to every group of Christian friends, ‘You have not chosen one another but I have chosen…
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10 Ways to Help Your Pastor Deal with Pornography In Your Church
Pornography in the pew has been called the new “Bubonic Plague,” destructively…
Pornography in the pew has been called the new “Bubonic Plague,” destructively influencing every Christian home. To pretend it is not a problem or hope it will go away is hoping against hope. I promise…
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Pastor, the Pornography Discussion Starts with You!
I want to speak to you pastor-to-pastor. You are the key to…
I want to speak to you pastor-to-pastor. You are the key to helping the men in your church break free and stay free from the chains of viewing pornography. God has given us the highest…
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Accountability is not a last resort. It’s a lifestyle.
When I visit churches or interact online with Christians to talk about…
When I visit churches or interact online with Christians to talk about the idea of accountability, I often detect an undertow of shame. Often Christians pursue accountability in order to put to death some nasty…
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3 Obstacles to Grace-Filled Community
In his interview for the documentary, Shamed, Daniel Weiss said something that…
In his interview for the documentary, Shamed, Daniel Weiss said something that has stuck with me: “The final obstacle to Christian community is the inability to be sinners together.” It is so true, and at…
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When Porn Is on the Report: 8 Steps for Allies
Josh and Serena’s marriage had taken a major hit. After years of…
Josh and Serena’s marriage had taken a major hit. After years of hiding his behavior online, Josh had developed a deeply engrained habit of looking at porn. Eight years into their marriage, Serena discovered the…
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How do I hold someone accountable for their porn use?
Neuroscientist William Struthers talks about how you can be a good friend…
Neuroscientist William Struthers talks about how you can be a good friend to someone who is harming themselves with repeated use of pornography. How do you hold someone accountable for their use of pornography? Struthers…