Most Recent Posts in Defeat Lust & Pornography
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3 Reasons the Devil Didn’t Make You Do It
“Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors.” –Rom. 8:37 “The…
“Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors.” –Rom. 8:37 “The Devil made me do it!” We’ve all heard it, but why do I do what I do? Isn’t that the question of all…
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Why Disney Relationships Are Just Like Porn
I’m the dad of 3- and 4-year-old daughters. I’m an expert on…
I’m the dad of 3- and 4-year-old daughters. I’m an expert on Disney princesses. My daughters have every word of the Frozen soundtrack memorized and have more Disney princess toys and articles of clothing than…
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Fighting Sexual Sin with Joy in the Lord
Joy may not be the first thought you think of when it…
Joy may not be the first thought you think of when it comes to sexual sin. In my experience with working with those addicted to pornography, they often experience a lot of guilt and shame,…
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What do all porn users have in common?
John is a 38-year-old man addicted to porn. His wife works third…
John is a 38-year-old man addicted to porn. His wife works third shift each night which gives him ample opportunity to dip his heart and mind in the snares of pornography. About six months ago, Lexi, a…
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No More: How Hitting Rock Bottom Helped Me Kick My Masturbation Habit
“No more _____.” I wrote this across the top of the January…
“No more _____.” I wrote this across the top of the January page of the following year’s calendar on New Year’s Eve approximately 20 years ago. I didn’t fill in the blank, but I knew…
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5 Warning Signs You’re Addicted to Porn
Many men who contact me for help in overcoming pornography use question…
Many men who contact me for help in overcoming pornography use question whether or not they really have an addiction to porn. Some simply don’t want to believe they could actually be addicted to the…
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Myth Busters: “I’ll stop looking at porn when I get married”
The TV show MythBusters is known for taking popular myths and showing…
The TV show MythBusters is known for taking popular myths and showing if they are true or not. More often than not, true to the show’s name, myths are “busted,” shown for the falsehoods they…
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3 Phases of Freedom
“Who wants a healthy snack?” It’s fun to see how people respond…
“Who wants a healthy snack?” It’s fun to see how people respond to this question. You often have people on one end of the spectrum who turn up their nose at the very thought of…
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3 Important Characteristics of True Accountability
Do you want to know the biggest reason why men and women…
Do you want to know the biggest reason why men and women stay stuck in porn and sex addiction? Forgoing true accountability. That’s right, the biggest reason why you ride the purity roller coaster is you…
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19 Possible Motives Triggering Your Porn Consumption
Often triggers and motive are treated as two distinct things, and there…
Often triggers and motive are treated as two distinct things, and there are differences. But those differences are more akin to two sides of the same coin than apples and oranges. In this post we’ll…